{mature} Stage's Only Rant You'll Ever Get

[stage53]

UM YEAH IT HAS MAYBE 2-3 MINORLY BAD WORDS TO SOME PEOPLE AND IS EXTREMELY LONG. BUT I'D LOVE YOU IF YOU READ IT.

So guess whattttttttttt? I'm going to Disney World with my family May 3rd. But I guess you could say was. >.< My step-dad who raised me mind you my real dad left until I was two, paid for the trip. He's not even my blood father but he treats me as his. My real dad has never taken me on a bloody trip once in all of my soon to be 15 years of life.

We were to fly out on a Sunday morning which happened to be his weekend. Neither of my parents realized and were already locked in. So my mom called my dad up and told him that she didn't know and wanted to pick me up early. He told her no. Supposable my half sister on his side is making her communion. It's the weekend before but the party's the weekend after. He said to change the time so I could go to her party. My mom called and they want $150 per ticket. We have nine tickets. Plus that's a whole day lost. T.T He said his new girl friend who I don't know has a friend who works for the airport and can change it.

My mom also said some one could stay behind and bring me later so I could go to the party. Because my dad said I wasn't going and I'd fly alone later and arrive in Florida at 1 A.M. Yeah no. If you know me I'm extremely skittish and hate being places alone where there are tons of people.

So I know what you are all saying why not just go to the dumb party so appease him? Well because neither him nor my sister have ever treated me well. My sister is nasty mean and always gets me in trouble for what she does. She's threatened to have her sister's guy friends come beat me up. And she never gets in trouble. Her mom encourages it and my dad is an idiot. >> He treats her better than me and never considers my feelings.

One, he never come to my riding shows or lessons. But he makes it to all of her practices and games no ifs ands or buts. He buys her everything she wants and refuses to give me anything. He never asks how I feel or what I want. So why the hell does he want me over his house anyway. He hasn't raised me. He doesn't care about me the way he does for his "perfect daughter". >> Not to mention last summer I went to Disney with him, her, and his ex-girlfriend. She paid for everything he's too cheap and doesn't care about us. I asked for one thing the whole time. THE WHOLE TIME. He told me no.

Yet he had no time buying her everything. Princess outfit with all the accessories, etc, etc. Which by the way she had a outfit already from the year before when she went with her mom so no she didn't need one. >> Yet I came home empty handed. Well sorta. My parents who didn't come with me gave me money. But I spent it on my siblings, grandparents, and parents. I got nothing yet I cared about my family. But yeah I'm the "bad" child. She didn't get anything for her family but yeah I didn't deserve anything. I spent a couple hundred dollars on myself right? I didn't think about my family. T.T And he has a new girl friend now because she made my dad break up with his ex. Lovely ay?

So yes I don't like her and I don't want to go to her party. I have a family that treats me better and that's who I want to go with. But he won't let me. Well you know what? She never came to any of my parties. In fact my dad never threw me a party. So why the hell should she get one? >.< Plus since I'm the only kid that knows I want to be there. I want to see their surprise faces. I want to sit with Sean the first time on a plane with him. I want to be there.

So no I don't want to miss for some half sister I don't even count as a sister. I am not staying behind. But it is his weekend.

My mom said if she sends me, he may not bring me back Sunday. Or he make take her to court and she could get sent to jail for 32 days to a year. But that's not fair. It's my decision she he shouldn't sue her for something I do. I refuse to go and my mom can't make me. And then my mom asked me if I was serious about going back to court.

And honestly I am. I don't want to be forced to go there. Everything has gone down hill since I returned home from Disney with him. I was crying when I came back from "The Happiest Place on Earth." So much for happy. And since then he's just been doing more things that's been pushing me away. I love him, but I don't want to around him. He just keeps making me madder. I would have left years ago if it wasn't for my grand parents. I couldn't do that to them. I care about them way to much.

So I do want to go to court but I don't. I don't want to strain my relationship with my grand parents over him. And I don't want my mom to be sent to jail for my decision. I don't want my mom to have to spend tons of money for a lawyer so she can get full custody or to change the court order. I just want to go to Disney with my family.

And he told my mom he'd talk with me about it. He says I'm so spoiled and get everything I want. Pft I'm one of seven bloody kids. Sure I get everything I want. Where's my horse? My own room? Where that stuff I asked for at Disney dad? And he said I'm going to pull my crying thing to make people feel bad for me. Mind you I am VERY VERY VERY sensitive and can't control my tears at all. So yes when I talk to him I will cry getting all of this off my chest. And yes he will be mad. And yes I will be hurting my family's relationship if I call him and tell him I'm not going.

I just don't know what to do. I've been crying since my mom told me. I'm just so confused. If you read this far you're awesome. Advice would be AMAZING.

[Kiellana]

Awwww, stagerz <3333 -thwaps dad- I have no idea -thwaps step sister- how a court works -thwaps dad again- so I can't really help you with that.. -thwaps stepsister again-.
Buttt, I do think that if you want to get away from him that bad you should do something about it.. he sounds like a poopy face xP And I'm sure your grandparents wouldn't mind if they understood what made you happy. Just say you would like to go visit them every once in a while. I have a friend who's parents got divorced not too long ago >.< She's a wreck, but anywayyy, I can kind-of understand where you're coming from with some of those troubles though I've never experienced it first hand.. I wish I could be more help and it all works out it the end! Ilu <33 It'll be okay =]

[Action]

I"m so sorry, Taggy. -hugs and refuses to let go- My sister is "the perfect child" too. Gets whatever she wants, whenever she wants it. When I ask for something, an immediate no. I can't control my tears either. Emotions either. I was laughing at random times last night at dinner over the least funny things ever. Well, of course that's because of girls stuff, but I'm unpredictable with my tears. Just hang in there, Tag. Remember that there are people that you love out there. Including myself and your grandparents. You'll be okay, just don't do anything hastily. I'm not going to tell you what to do, because I'm not all that great on my feet with that either, and everything turns out bad when I give advice, so just hold on. Don't let them get to you. My mom always tells me that when they're mean to you or whatever, just smile. It never works for me because I get too overly emotional, but it might for you. I'm not sure. You never know. Again, I'm soooo sorry, Taggerz. Just know that there are people that love you to death and those that don't are missing out on a lot.

All my <333 and luck.

['Sanura]

Aww stagerz! <333 I really can't give you any advice, I wouldn't know what to say. All I can do is say I agree with Acty, there are people who love you(ME!! XDD) and people who don't love you are missing out majorly! And I am totally paranoid also! -pokes comment about flying by herself and endeing up in Florida at 1AM be herself- I would die. DX -hugs-

Oh boy do I know about confusion though. DDX All I can say go with your first instinct and listen to the older wiser people around you. Usually that helps alot to ask a mom or grandparent about advice.

[//.Jazzy]

If your a certain age you can go to court for full custody of your mother. I believe that age is 15 maybe? Anyways, just tell him that he's being unfair to your feelings and maybe he should consider lettting you go lest anymore bad feelings arise between you too. I have a father just like that, though no stepfather, and I just don't go to his place on his weekend. The sad thing is though is he just doesn't care, but this isn't about me right now. Hang in there missy and it'll be okay

[Bengal Brat]

Feb 19, 2009 16:51:47 GMT -5 //.Jazzy said:

If your a certain age you can go to court for full custody of your mother. I believe that age is 15 maybe?

In most states in the U.S., the instant a child turns 13, they can choose which parent they want to live with should their parents ever get divorced/split up without ever being married. That's when they "become of age," but in a different way; in the eyes of the court, you're smart enough to make your own decisions. You have the right to tell your dad to leave you alone and he shouldn't be able to say or do anything about it. However, that would involve going to court in order to make it LEGAL; if you decided not to go see him, then your mom could get arrested unless you went through the court. I know you don't want to use lawyers, but it's something you should talk to your mom about. If you just feel like your real dad is a stranger who just could care less about you, you could disown him through the court, once again, but there's no going back if you do that; I should know; my dad's trying to disown me.

Anyway... it is all really up to you, since I don't know you in RL and only know about this through what you posted on the Internet. I'm sorry I can't be of much more help, Taggy, dear. *hugs*