Warning: Mature Content

[ruffles]

I'm rating this thread M for language, it may not be a lot of foul language but for those who do not like foul language please do not read. You've been warned.

Okay so this year a certain group of girls, we will call them A's for no particular reason, that I have been hanging out with since I moved to where I live right now. Well so far this year they have decided to have a target of the week, well atleast two of the A girls have decided to have a target of the week. Well three weeks ago it was my friend Ash and I stuck up for her becouse she was getting ganged up on by the other A girls. Well of course me helping out Ash got the other girls pissed at me but I really didn't care. The whole problem between Ash and the rest of the A girls blew over and the week ended.

The next week they decided to gang up on Mich. Well I decided I would help her out becouse I was friends with everyone in the class. And ofcourse the stupid b.tches got mad at me agian. And they kept saying that it was my own fault that I got into, which I knew, and that I need to stop whining about it which I wasnt. And at this point I was pissed off royaly, so I told them that I knew what I was getting into and that I didn't care what they said about me or did to me, it only mattered what they said or did to the person they were ganging up on. So of course this just dug a bigger hole between me and the A group but as you can tell I just don't f.cking care.

Okay third week they decided to target Kan. By this time I thought it was pretty stupid that they were doing this. And you know why they were mad at her? Becouse she said she was moving, which she was but due to complications she could, and so she didn't move. So they got pissed. Of course Kan being one of my dearest friends I'm decideing to stick up for her. But the stupid b.tches keep thinking they are right all the time and that I am whining about being brought into the fights, which I point out again I do not whine about it, and I'm just sooo sick and tired of this constant bullsh.t. So if I don't come on here it's either becouse I'm to angry with the girls or I finally snapped and punched one of them and is grounded.

-Ruffles

ooc: I just needed to write this out, I understand lugu if you want me to delete this I just needed to get it out.

[Defect]

Ooh! Poo Ruffles... Punch her!!! PUNCH HER!!!!!!! Keel her.... mwa ha ha ha....

[Action]

Mm. Just ask Tarb and me about this. They were some of our best friends. Well, all of them were except for one. They now pick on us like every minute of every day. Don't feel bad. We know exactly what you mean. Messing with them means certain death. Just hang in there. Don't listen to Insane. Just calm yourself down. Don't slug em. Bad things happen when you do that. -shifty eyes- Just hold on and hang in there. Tell them to go [insert bad thing here] their mama if they can't shut up. That's what I do and they seem to leave me alone after that for the next like 5 minutes...anyways, just don't do anything drastic.

[Defect]

Woah. Nuu! Listen to me! Slug um to death!

[Action]

Please, Insane. Stop. If it goes too far, Ruffles get expelled from school like some of my and Tarb's friends. I know she wouldn't slug them because you told her too, but it is disturbing.

[Locura]

Violence is not the way to solve anything. I know it feels good sometimes, but that kind of stuff follows you for the rest of your life and you are almost guaranteed to regret it.

Some people just suck. That's life. Just ignore them. They want you to get mad and react. Ignore them and they'll get bored. Or go tell a teacher, or a counselor. Do anything except violence.

-Locz

[ruffles]

We've already been to the counsler, all the girls in the class, but that didn't work just made the girls even more mad.

['Sanura]

"You live by the sword, you die by the sword." Locu and Acty are right, violence isn't the answer, it only causes more violence. I don't know your exact situation Ruffles so all I can say is ignore them. Get your own group of friends together and take the high road ya know? But that's just me, and I can't say I've ever been picked on. I admire that you stuck up for your friends though Ruffle. Were the "A" girls your friends or just like a "popular" group?

[Defect]

Guys... quit... I was just kidding... You hurt my feelings...-sniff- I is senseitive... -runaway-

[ruffles]

They were my friends

[Locura]

It doesn't matter whether you were kidding or not Insane, some people just don't find jokes about that type of stuff funny. Ruffles posted here looking for help, or just to talk about it. Your comments did not help, and maybe made a few people here uncomfortable. I, personally, am not angry with you at all. It's just that I would prefer if you didn't joke about things that aren't funny.

Ruffles, I know what it's like to have friends turn on you. It sucks. You cry yourself to sleep and wish that it'd never happened, but time doesn't go backward. Things will change. It sounds like you still have some good friends. Feel fortunate, for I didn't when my friends turned on me. Stick with your good buddies who care about you and ignore the a$$holes who are being mean to you. It's about all you can do.
-Loc

[ruffles]

Thank you for the advice. I needed to hear it.

[Action]

I cry myself to sleep a lot. The entire group of the most "popular" people used to be my friends, my best friends until they turned on me. I cry myself to sleep a ton. I get sick of the life I live out. My dad acts like he hates me all the time, my mom is too wrapped up in the computer to care, my friends all hate me now for some unknown reason...I'm making it through though....I've gotten to the point where I completely ignore them now. It makes them so mad. To make them really mad, just agree with everything their saying about you. XD It makes them so mad that you are agreeing with all the things they are calling you....I've tried it. lol It works for my X-friends. lol But, a lot of us know how it feels to be turned on and betrayed. Just stick it out. Your the real grown up here. Not them.

[Lugubrious]

First of all, I'm perfectly okay with this post. I understand that life is hard, I've had my fair share of friend issues. :]

Hon, the best advice I can give is to make ammends. You don't need to be friends with them. Mean people don't make good friends. I was completely outside of the loop during middle school. (not sure how old you are, but it carries on through all the grades) It hurts a little at first, not knowing who says what, and even if they talk about you. Try hanging out with people you consider losers. Not ones that annoy the hell out of you, but maybe some that you never really considered to be friends. They will welcome you. There is always somebody to turn to, and even through your pride may be hurt for a while. I am not popular. But I really don't care. And nobody ever will care. Its nice being 'popular', but the stress is so much that I got tired of it. It's your call.

And really, violence isn't the answer. You don't need to get mad. Being sad is normal. You'll get over it, just keep hanging in there.

[Bengal Brat]

Locu, Sunny, Tio, and Lugu are all right. Tio and I have both been constantly targeted by a big group of girls that used to be my friend, but guess what? Everyone turned on them. The instant they turned into b.tches, everyone hated them. Even the guys who don't like me because we just don't get along hate them for being nasty to both me and Tio. They went up to the "big school" (the middle/high school with the rest of us) and now, everyone pretty much ignores them; they're all a lot better, I think, except for one, who is just getting worse for lack of attention. Even the perverted guys ignore them, and honestly, one or two are some of the prettiest girls in the school. I say if you can't ignore the A girls, tell them that they're wrong and acting stupid. Something will come back and bite them in the butt if they kept being jerks. Then, just ignore them. If they continue it, people will start to side with you until they're just left out. It gets to them until they can all tone it down.